This has been one of the most recurring conversations I've had in recent days here on CP, so I want to talk about it: being real. I've heard this from a few people here, and it makes me incredibly happy. You know why? Because when I created this profile, my intention was never to perform an empty character. It was to truly connect with the person on the other side. The virtual world shouldn't make us less human. Fantasy exists. Games exist. Hierarchies exist. But people still exist. Pulsating. Feeling. Reacting. And it's okay to feel. It's okay to be who you are. To unleash your fantasies. To explore your desires. And still have emotions involved. Feeling is inherent to being human. You're not weak because of it. Much less an idiot. And here's something essential: consent and respect for boundaries. BDSM isn't about overstepping the other person's boundaries. It's about clear agreements. It's about communication. It's about understanding the limits of your desire and the limits of the other person's. Without consent, there is no power. Without respect, there is no dynamic. There is only lack of control. When we talk about BDSM, we're talking about a community that has chosen to experience its sexuality in an unconventional way. A space where pleasure, surrender, control, and vulnerability coexist. And vulnerability is not the absence of strength. It's awareness. Being real within a dynamic doesn't break the game. It deepens it. If you feel that there is presence here, it's because there truly is. I don't turn off my humanity when I enter a session. I use it. And perhaps that's exactly why you feel it. 🔑 #bdsm