Before I had a relationship with a foot fetishist, whose name is Luiz, I can divide foot fetishists into two categories: those I rejected, men who, without any kind of shyness or modesty, confessed to being foot fetishists, asking me to fulfill their fantasies and fetishes with my feet; and those others who, today I am certain, passed through my life without me even noticing or recognizing them. Before Luis, I can also divide myself into two categories: the woman who always thought she could live her sexuality freely and also a woman who starts from within herself like all others, full of prejudices and limiting beliefs, something, by the way, very characteristic of human beings in general, but perhaps more instilled in women because sexist standards limit our sexuality much more than that of men. I was partly like all the women I knew: full of prejudices, modesty and pre-established standards about what is good or bad, beautiful or ugly, right or wrong, and, above all, about what was considered normal or abnormal. Yes, I was a contradiction: I was so open-minded about certain practices and so closed-minded about others! I allowed myself to have sex freely, because I allowed myself to sleep with as many men as I wanted or do everything that could give me pleasure (or practices that I imagined would give me pleasure), but I was limited, closed off to everything that was not within that little box of what was catalogued as “normal”. I was free inside my cage and trapped outside of it. Maybe you belong to a community, group, city or social environment where there is less prejudice and more dialogue. But, in the social environment that I live in, sex was never seen as normal. Even today, if I tell a friend that I know a man who is a foot fetishist, I doubt that her imagination about this man is not that of a pervert with mental problems. It is as if all the imaginary things about this man already existed in people's heads, and only today do I know that: in social terms, it is as common as all the others. Human beings can do everything they do not know. Prejudice, preconceptions, create a concept and a fixed idea about something they do not yet know. They are afraid of what they do not know, and for this very reason they reject it. Human beings fear what is new because they have my change. This fear is not just a behavioral state that arises solely from a specific psychological emotional state; it is also biological, it is born with us, it is part of human nature, because our organism does not want to make any kind of effort. Our organism is only concerned with its self-preservation; it eats food for fear that one day it will run out, it saves energy in case we need it tomorrow. Our body's ultimate instinct is survival, and so, as a way of protecting ourselves, our body accustoms us to saving energy, which is why we fear new things and change, because all of this requires spending more energy and our body wants to stay in its comfort zone. I see sexuality as the highest level of the pillars of self-knowledge. I live my sexuality trying to discover myself, know myself and reach myself. For the most prejudiced, it may seem like a simple, lame excuse for promiscuity and debauchery, but the truth is that I firmly believe that we can evolve through sex, living our sexuality as a form of self-knowledge and personal development. However, I don't want to lose focus in this series of erotic stories about Foot Worship, but this introduction to the world of foot worship also requires breaking down prejudices. Come to my feet without fear of being happy? #fetish