In #BDSM, a switcher is someone who can assume a dominant or submissive position, depending on several factors, such as mood, their partner's personality, or trust. I'm a switcher with a much greater inclination toward submission, which doesn't take away from the days and moments when I'm more willing to dominate. In the acronym, I also really like the letter M, for masochist. I greatly enjoy pain and find moments of self-flagellation almost meditative. If you've read this far and are scared off because you're not interested in BDSM, don't worry. I enjoy all kinds of fetishes and have an extensive collection of sex toys, yes, but I also know the softer, more romantic side of interactions. I enjoy talking and getting to know people intimately, as deep as they allow me to go. I love being good company and giving pleasure. This is my pleasure, my thrill in life. I enjoy reading, watching movies (especially horror movies), going to the gym, parks, and fetish parties. I grew up on a farm and love nature. While I enjoy submission and domination, I hope it's clear that I'm not the kind of person who will call you names out of the blue or accept a completely random insult. The whole atmosphere has to be built. I hope to have the pleasure of meeting you sometime between Monday and Friday. I'd love for you to open a door or window to your world for me. ♥