In BDSM, a Switcher is someone who can assume either the dominant or submissive role, depending on various factors such as mood, partner's personality, or trust. I also really like the letter M in the acronym, for masochist. I find great pleasure in pain and find almost meditation in moments of self-flagellation. If you've read this far and are surprised because you're not interested in BDSM, don't worry. I enjoy all kinds of fetishes and have an extensive collection of erotic toys, yes, but I also know the gentle and romantic side of interactions well. I like to talk and get to know people intimately, as deep as you allow me to go. I love being good company and giving pleasure. That's my pleasure, my passion in life. I enjoy reading, watching movies (especially horror), going to the gym, parks, and fetish parties. I grew up on a farm and love nature. Although I enjoy both submitting and dominating, I hope it's clear that I'm not the type of person who will insult you "out of the blue" or accept a completely random insult. The atmosphere needs to be created. I hope to have the pleasure of meeting you one of these mornings, between Monday and Friday. I would love for you to open a door or window to your world for me. ♥