Welcome to my profile! I'm Deborah and I'm submissive and I wanted to clear some people's doubts. A submissive is a person with an intense desire to serve, but with some conditions. Conditions typically include terms of service, length of service, limits, consents and concepts of the submissive, use of the safe word. Hard limits are activities that the dominant will not be able to interact with the submissive, broken hard limits would lead to the end of a relationship scene, or the loss of trust. Soft boundaries are boundaries that can be broken, but only after having been discussed with the submissive. There are many levels and versions of submission, one way to ensure a good relationship is to communicate exactly what you want, both on a normal and sexual level. Limits must be clear. So pay attention to the words they use, and always agree when you want something and always ask if it is something the submissive is willing to do or not!