Chat Rules 1. Politeness is essential. I like to create connection, atmosphere… everything at the right time. I don’t enter the chat already showing off — first, we get to know each other. 2. The conversation starts off smoothly and evolves naturally. Patience is part of the pleasure. 3. If you’re going to leave, let me know by saying “I came, I need to leave”. Disappearing out of nowhere ruins the mood. No rush, no pressure. The pleasure is in the surrender.