❤ ABOUT RECENT EVENTS: I've been absent in the last few days, but not because I didn't want to be here. I love being here. I feel welcomed, loved, cherished... I think this is called reciprocity. I believe this is the first time I'm going to talk OPENLY about this subject. I can count on the fingers of one hand the number of people I've confessed something so intimate to. When I was very young, 18+, I was abused by a member of my family. How did I find out? One day I was on the site and a user forced me to remember a situation I went through in my childhood. I stopped to think and saw what was right before my eyes but I couldn't see: I was abused. As many years have passed (I joined the site in 2019), I forgave him and continued to take care of my family, as I always have. I carry this memory with me, but I know that it doesn't hurt me as much anymore. I think many have gone through what I went through, some have not yet realized or realized and still carry those scars to this day. My grandfather, the man who supported the family for many years, the one who took care of me and my family, had a stroke. I am providing the necessary support for my family, and I am even writing this while I drink coffee and get ready to go to the hospital. I am devastated, today I woke up to the news that he has not recovered his memory. I leave the house to support my family, but I know that my support is here on the website. I ask for understanding from everyone who has not received a response in the last few days and I ask for a lot of affection and empathy from those who will cross my path in the coming days. These will not be sad days, they will be days when I will be online with the purpose of making everyone's day happier and continuing to support my family with dignity. Thank you for reading this far.