Modest and... A woman's beauty lies not in her curves, but in her soul, in her striking personality, in the way she conveys love, confidence, intelligence, and grace. "Being a woman means constantly dealing with fine lines. It's the daily struggle to balance independence and intimidation. It's almost never knowing if a man's approach has any interest beyond what he claims. It's having your competence measured by the (dis)proportionate relationship of your physical appearance. It's speeding up your pace on a dark, uncrowded street, yet still wanting to explore the night, the streets, the curves. It's having to listen to men telling you how you should feel, dress, and act. But at the same time, it's saying no to that and knowing that only you know what's going on inside." In short, it's wonderful, but not easy.