A dominatrix is a woman who takes the lead in an erotic or sexual relationship, and whose partner (the submissive) agrees to follow all her orders and wishes. Play the role of dominatrix by taking control of the sexual act, respecting the other person's limits, and experimenting with new things. Always keep safety in mind and discuss the desires of both partners thoroughly before engaging in BDSM (acronym for Bondage, Discipline, Domination, Submission, Sadism, and Masochism).