I started my birthday celebrations early and exactly how I wanted. Last weekend, I met a sub who knew me from my platforms and traveled from another city just to spend the weekend with me. He rented an Airbnb for us to stay together and arrived ready to give himself completely. I spent the weekend using him the way I wanted, controlling every moment, every reaction, and every detail. He did everything to satisfy me. But, beyond that, he was a gentleman the whole time. He paid for everything, took care of me, treated me with respect, attention, and politeness at every moment. And I offered the same respect in return, because intensity doesn't negate care. It was a whole weekend of surrender and control. Me guiding everything, him following every command, and both of us enjoying this intense and conscious exchange.