People who try to discourage others from anything are failures and to feel less like failures they try to make everyone around them fail to ease the pain of personal failure a little, that's very sad, I feel sorry for people like that, please if If I were more naive I would let myself be manipulated but no, just because you haven't achieved anything of value in your life doesn't mean that everyone shouldn't be able to, I hope this helps you touch yourself, kisses.