HERE'S MY SINCERE SAPIOSEXUAL MANIFESTO: Being sapiosexual means feeling that the primary trigger of attraction is intelligence: the quality of conversation, the clarity of ideas, the curiosity that explores the world. Dictionaries define sapiosexuality as sexual (or romantic) attraction to intelligent people; it's when the other person's brain becomes the primary vector of desire. This isn't a "degree fetish" or a cult of IQ. It's a thrill for lively thinking: good questions, quick wit, well-used references, the calmness of someone who changes their mind when faced with a better argument. In me, the spark is born when a conversation takes me out of autopilot, when someone challenges me elegantly, organizes chaos into words, and, to boot, truly listens. Some criticize the label for sounding elitist or confusing preference with orientation. The debate exists, and it's healthy. I take this term less as a rigid identity flag and more as a public reminder of what moves me. Why does this matter? Because it changes the flirting game. I'm won over by those who argue without humiliating, who quote without pedantry, who play with ideas like someone dancing: leading and, at the same time, letting themselves be carried away. AESTHETICS CALL ME AND THE ETHICS OF THOUGHT MAKES ME STAY! #sapiossexual