One day, I saw a film directed by Stanley Kubrick, “Eyes Wide Shut”. In the story, the character Alice, played by Nicole Kidman, wife of the protagonist Dr. Bill Harford, played by Tom Cruise, confesses to having had sexual fantasies about another man and arouses the curiosity and jealousy of her husband, who begins to explore the underworld sex worker in the city in search of an adventure that will free him from his repressed desires. In the production, the theme of “cuckolding”, a practice in which a man feels pleasure when watching his partner have sexual relations with another man, is explored in the scene of an orgy, in which women are “blindfolded” (with their eyes blindfolded). and the men wear masks to ensure anonymity. The excerpt suggests that the desire to be controlled and humiliated is a common fantasy among participants. Years after the film's release, new research, released on Cuckold Day, caused a stir by indicating that this fetish is not restricted to the grim Kubrickian universe. According to a survey carried out by 19 million subscribers to an adult website, a significant 90% of the platform's male users admitted that they had already wanted to see their partner having sex with someone else, which, in addition to cuckolding, is also called “cuckold fetish”. , being characterized by the act of seeing one's wife or girlfriend having sexual relations with another person, or even knowing that this is happening elsewhere. Research indicates that women are also fans of the fetish, feeling pleasure when seeing their partner having sex with another woman. In this case, the practice is known as “cuckquean” (a woman who likes to be cheated on) and “hothusband” (a man who is seen cheating). Although the term “cheating” is commonly used to define the fetish, in practice, no one is cheating on anyone, since one of the main rules of cuckolding is mutual consent. Depending on the combined context and the preferences of each couple, “betrayal” can happen in several ways, such as at a distance, for example, with the details told later, or even with one of the participants acting as a voyeur, that is, watching the scene from afar or up close – even filming or otherwise interacting. One of the aspects that often involve the cuckold and the cuckquean is the search for being humiliated and feeling pleasure and excitement from this experience. But this is not a sine qua non condition among followers of this fetish. About the origin of the term: the expression cuckold comes from the cuckoo bird, whose female searches for other nests to lay her eggs, without the male knowing about it. #fetish