Allow yourself to be poorly seen, poorly spoken, poorly evaluated! Allow them to be wrong about you, to laugh behind your back! Allow them to judge, to whisper, to believe they know who you are! Allow them to "look at you crookedly", to move away, to exclude you, to reject you! Let your reputation fall to the ground, face your worst nightmare! And see that YES, it ends in death! Death of the one who was a slave "of others". Because the "other" no longer has power over you.