My journey into BDSM revealed to me that this fetish was not a simple sexual act. Through the agreements established, I discovered a deep connection with myself. The process of negotiating limits not only allowed me to cognitively understand the importance of consent, but it also strengthened me and gave me the confidence to say and experience what is appropriate for me or not. I realized that I had the right to say no and to make autonomous decisions about my body and desires. And this experience not only enriched my sexual life, but also my personal life, the person I am here and how I communicate with you. Which had a positive impact on my self-esteem and my sense of confidence. Therefore, today I understand the fetish as a tool that I can use to my advantage when working on my erotic awareness. Text written by: abruxapreta