User: calls chat, turns on webcam and says: Let me see if you're hot. Me: then let me see if you're not broke. User: gets angry, curses and hangs up. Do you see the irony? He just wanted to use me and got super angry because I wanted to use him too. Men think they're great for USING women, but women are bad and of bad character for being reciprocal? What's the logic? Men who have never studied psychology should know that this is called projection. You hate in others what you have in yourself and you don't admit it. I read a comment like this: it's in women's nature to be materialistic. Then we go back a few decades and the father selling his daughter to whoever had the most money. The father didn't sell his daughter to the kindest and most good-natured man. They sold her to whoever paid the most, that is, we learn to be materialistic from men themselves.