Have you ever considered that this is exactly how you come to me? Well then, know that it's the bare minimum of politeness to introduce yourself when you've just met someone, and in my chat room I don't forgo this courtesy. I have a well-developed profile where you have all my personal and visual information; all I have about you is what you tell me, if you tell me. I don't force anyone to message me, but if you do, know that I'm not just anyone you can boss around. I have my values, and I'm sure that if you appreciate quality, we'll get along very well... Sincerely, Carolline