Our mind does amazing things automatically, we don't even realize why we're doing something. One of the automatic things she does is to associate a message with the messenger, for example, if you want to gain more confidence from a woman and make her like you a little more, buy a chocolate every time before going out. There, when you are already engaged with a woman, offer her chocolate, women in general love chocolate. (Laughter ...) When she is eating and talking to you, the pleasure of chocolate will be associated with you and your image, this is very important to create a positive feeling in her about you. It is important to offer the sealed chocolate. ;)