The power of self-responsibility The concept of self-responsibility places you as the sole responsible for your life as it is now. It makes you aware that your choices, good or bad, have put you where you are right now. The idea is that you apply this to all sectors of your life and here comes the shock: Blaming life, others, your family, is no longer a possibility. You are the only one responsible! Difficult right? You will notice that nobody forced you to be with person x, you chose that. If your job is not legal? you didn't do everything you could to qualify. If you were made a muggle more than once; you saw the signs but chose to ignore or play blind. If your body and health is as it is, guess what? You didn't want to / want to pay the price to be better, etc. Once you are aware of all of this, it is difficult to ignore, but of course it is possible. Our mind is a master at telling us cozy lies and we love to stay in the comfort zone. Or you can ask yourself: is this how I want to be in 5, 10.30 years from now? Super accommodated and with the same problems? Alias, I correct, problems that we choose not to face, they grow, they grow and when we decide to move, besides being bigger, it will be more complicated and sometimes irreversible. Now a truth: Nobody is on planet earth with the mission to make you happy! Eeeeee Sorry there, disappoint you lol. Nobody wakes up early, takes a shower, gets dressed, gets their yogurt, coffee and bread, gives a little jump and says: I'm going to make Fulana (o) happy! Our needs, insecurities, financial problems, weight, immaturity, unhappiness, frustrations; '' they are all our problem ''. This means that waiting for the other to come and make you happy is the biggest fallacy of recent times. Yes, Disney deceived us and so did the soap operas. A hot cat will not appear to keep you safe, and take care of your needs. There will be no prince to make me happy and take care of me. Now screwed huh? hahahahahahhaaha Knowing that; make yourself happy, be enough. Go find out the root of your insecurities and resolve this with therapy. Go after improving and evolving; invest in you. No one else can do this but yourself. Nobody is here to be a workshop. Catch you broken emotionally, affectively and fix you up. Nobody wants to be a crane and pick up dead weight; it would only slow you down or make you stop in time. Who wants to be in any of these roles? Nobody wants it! Now screwed huh? hahahahahahh. Knowing this; make yourself happy, be enough. Go find out the root of your insecurities and resolve this with therapy. Go after improving and evolving. Taking charge of our life requires a lot of ourselves but it definitely makes you a better person. It teaches you how to make better choices in the future, you will better select the people you want around; it will manage your life with some level of self-responsibility that will bring you more satisfaction, more fulfillment, and more self-esteem. Be kind to yourself and review your choices. That done, you will only be interested in people like you; did what he had to do. My mother, who is now my best friend; taught me something with examples and not with words: You are your problem! You are enough to be and have everything you want. And I share that with you now. What is your responsibility for the disorder you complain about? Answer for yourself. You, it's your problem! No matter who is to blame for your current situation, staying or leaving it is your responsibility. Ema, ema, ema, each with their problems lol. Go get the best version of yourself :)
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