PLAYING AT DOMINATION - Every person who tells me they read something I wrote and it made them reflect or better understand their feelings about BDSM, makes me happy with what I set out to do when I chose to talk about this world. It's easy to approach the subject when you choose to talk about practices, techniques, this candle burns, this one doesn't and so on... There are limits, rules and a whole liturgy to be explained. There is also the pornographic side that exposes bdsm in an unrealistic way. People see this and think that's how bdsm is lived, nowadays there's even a course... You can learn about bdsm by reading, seeing, but you'll only get to know the real BDSM by feeling. Unlike those who seek to profit by saying teach to Dominate, the fact is, if you are Dominant or not. If the person is Switcher and assumes both roles it is in his nature to Dominate "also", but if the person is exclusively submissive he can learn about the practices, and all the recipe of "how to" but his true nature, his essence it is not Dominant. So if getting slapped on the ass of a submissive is Domination for you, know that you still have a lot to learn about this Art. Domme Real:.