One thing few people tell you about anal pleasure: it's not a "gay thing," it's not an aberration, and it doesn't simply depend on the prostate. There's an enormous amount of sensitivity in the anal and pelvic region, and people with prostates report pleasure in different points of this region. In one study, the prostate didn't even appear as the only – or main – source of pleasure for everyone. So why do so many people still feel ashamed to admit they like it? Because maybe the problem was never the body. Maybe it was everything you were taught about what a man should like. And that's precisely where BDSM starts to get interesting. Because when you stop worrying so much about what you "should" feel, you start to discover what you really feel. Curiosity isn't an obligation. You don't have to like anything just because someone told you to. But you also don't have to spend your whole life saying you don't like something you've never had the courage to try. I find that difference fascinating. What about you? #pegging